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Can you change your child’s last name after a divorce?

On Behalf of | Jun 24, 2025 | Divorce

Changing a child’s last name after a divorce can raise emotional concerns and legal questions. In North Dakota, a parent can ask to change the name of a minor child, but the process must follow certain rules. 

The court must decide whether the change serves the best interests of the child. This ultimately depends on the family’s relationship with the ex-spouse.

How can you request to change your child’s last name?

A parent must file a request with the court to change the child’s name. The filing parent must also notify the other parent. If the other parent disagrees with the name change, the court will hold a hearing. At the hearing, the judge will review several factors to decide whether to approve the change.

How do courts decide whether to approve a name change?

North Dakota courts look at how the name change will affect the child. The court may consider how long the child has had the current name, and may also consider the child’s age and whether the child identifies with the current or proposed name. If the child is old enough to express an opinion, the court may take that into account.

The court may also review the relationship between the child and each divorced parent. If one parent has had little contact with the child, that could help validate the name change. If the child uses a different last name in everyday life, the court might see that as another reason to allow the change.

Why might the court deny a name change?

The court will not approve the change simply because one parent wants it; the parent must show that the new name will help the child emotionally, socially or in some other meaningful way. The court must believe the change benefits the child, not just the parent.

In North Dakota, parents must handle name changes through the proper court process. A name connects a child to family, history and identity. That is why courts treat name changes with care and only approve them when they clearly help the child.